Thanks for stopping by!
I'm Wendy Treynor, teacher of love and self-love, and creator of "Healing Consulting." I am a social psychologist,
cancer survivor, philosopher,
artist, scientist, writer, and dreamer--as well as an inspirational
speaker, author, and personal consultant.
I have created Healing Consulting to help people heal themselves, to actualize
their full potential. My deepest wish is to help people find the freedom,
the peace, the love, and the happiness they seek: to help people live their
lives to the fullest.
Through Healing
Consulting, I offer seminars, workshops, and personal consultation. Using
these media, I share with others the knowledge I have acquired from my life
experience and research (my own and that of other social psychologists), so
that they, too, may heal themselves and actualize their own potential.
Like a
confluence of tributaries into a single river, the knowledge I have acquired
and seek to share comes from two sources, but converges into one:
· The first source is science (where knowledge is
derived using the scientific method, laboratory experiments or longitudinal
studies run on human beings, quantification, statistical analysis, and logical
deduction).
· The other source is spirit and comes from life
experience (what I learned from my cancer experience, which stripped me of
everything material, and what I continue to learn from my daily practice of
yoga, meditation, walking, and quiet contemplation).
I'd like to share some
inspirational thoughts I've recently had with you:
*You
are as successful now as you'll ever be; success is simply the ability to enjoy
your life.
*Do what you need to to do to make yourself happy.
*Cultivate wonder.
*Fear is the only prison.
*Love
textures our
lives with meaning.
If you would like to read MORE thoughts I've had, please click the "Inspirational" button to your left.
"Superb"
-Meredith Grenier
Journalist
The Daily Breeze
"...an inspirational experience filled with so many lessons that anyone--living or dying--can relate to, no matter what stage of life you're in."
-Rebecca Villaneda Reporter
The Palos Verdes News
Wendy's talk has been proven to make a positive difference! In March 2010, we ran a study at The Wellness Community, South Bay Cities with funding from The Lloyd Symington Foundation and found that audience members who watched The Art of Happiness: The Story reported increased life satisfaction, as assessed by the question, "I love life" and as suggested by Diener et al.'s 5-item Life Satisfaction Scale.
FRESH FROM WENDY'S BLOG…
"Our dream comes true as soon as we step towards it.
Taking baby steps towards the actualization
of our dreams will create positive emotion in our lives and infuse our lives
with meaning, regardless of whether the dream, exactly as we envisioned it,
ever fully becomes actualized....
[W]e will realize that in our having worked
towards our dream, our dream already
has been fulfilled. Why?
....[T]he reason we had that dream in the
first place is because the idea of it gave us joy, and in working towards it,
we gave ourselves that joy.
Therefore, our dream actually already did come true! What we longed
for and wanted most (happiness, fulfillment, meaning, itself) was ours!
In simply stepping towards our dream, we fulfill
it."
May All Your Dreams Come True!
Wendy Treynor, Ph.D. Healing Consulting 107 W. Torrance Blvd. Suite 100, Pier Plaza Redondo Beach, CA 90277
(Country Code: DIAL "1")
Tel:
310-937-5683
310-YES-LOVE
Serving the World!
Quote of the Moment:
"The Earth is an island in the sea of space."
WENDY'S NEW BOOK
Towards a General Theory of Social Psychology
Understanding Human Cruelty, Human Misery, and, Perhaps, a Remedy
(A Theory of the Socialization Process)
"...'Towards a General Theory of Social Psychology' is a highly intriguing and entertaining read, sure to give both psychology students and non-specialist general readers much to think about."
-Midwest Book Review
AVAILABLE
NOV 7, 2009!
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or
“...[Treynor offers] an important conclusion about the way in which acceptance and love are basic and fundamental issues in relation to socialization."
-Journal of Analytical Psychology
GATEWAY TO HAPPINESS
POEM
If you believe the odds are stacked against you, they are.
If you believe you have a shot, you do.
If you believe your cup is half full or empty
So, it is true for you.
If you believe you’re free, you’re free.
If you believe you’re radiant, you shine.
If you believe in Love, you’re happy.
If you believe in yourself, you’re Divine.
If you perceive others' perfection,
If you release shackling lores,
If you perceive them faultless,
Then their perfection is yours.
If you perceive meaning, your life is meaningful.
If you perceive beauty, your life is beautiful.
If you see with eyes of wonder, your life is wonderful.
If you see with forgiving eyes, your life
is peaceful.
If you see with present moment awareness, your life is Eternal.
If you see with loving eyes, your life is Blissful.
If you believe you’re free, you’re free.
If you believe you’re radiant, you shine.
Your beliefs are the gateway to your happiness.
So, choose your beliefs wisely; and
Drink from the cup Everlasting
of Bliss and Love Divine.
Learn about Wendy's talks (such as"The Art of Happiness," "The Gift of Cancer," & "Don't Believe Everything You Think" )
or what people are saying about them ("What
People are Saying").
Or, if you have questions, please call me at
310-YES-LOVE.
I look forward to meeting you!
WENDY’S INSPIRATIONAL THOUGHT ON
LOVE
Plants are organisms. They have hearts, their seeds.
They have lungs, their circulatory systems. Love is what we give of
ourselves so that others may grow, just as seeds are what plants give of
themselves so that other plants may grow. Love, like plants' seeds, is
the part of ourselves that gives new life. It is all that remains of us
when we die, when our bodies decay, giving new life, so that others may
grow. Love is eternal life.
WENDY'S INSPIRATIONAL POEM
The Love you seek is within your own heart.
The joy you seek emanates from your own being.
The freedom you seek is yours to claim.